Hands down the second one!!! Has more of a romantic bride look. I know what you mean about going over budget as I had a similar experience. However, I'm in love with my dress and just couldn't picture myself in anything less so I went for it. It's your special day and the only time you plan to walk down the aisle. I say go for it! You'll be amazed at the blessings you'll receive to make up for the extra $1100. God bless!!!
You def have a style you love that works for you!. You look amazing in both. I am partial to the lace one it is beyond amazing and so detailed. The train is also beautiful. I am guessing this is the more expensive one, maybe I'm wrong because of the beading on the first. Consider weight of the dress and comfort but if you are really that torn i would say the answer is the one that is $1,100 less haha.
Good Luck you are going to make one beautiful bride!