I asked my best friend to be my MOH. My wedding is going to be a Covid wedding all outdoors. We will be providing masks for everyone. My mother, aunt, and future sister in law are doing all planning with me. Her invitation was as an honored guest only. She told me no via text message claiming that the virus was really messing with her head, more than she thought. I understood this, but am very hurt. I know she has been a MOH, maybe she is tired of doing it? IDK, but it is making it hard for me to push forward with our friendship.
Fast forward 3 weeks, my fiancee may have had the virus and we are waiting on tests. Her husband invites us over to hang out and we are clear that we do not know if we have it. He and she are both OK with us coming over. I just don't understand.
I would appreciate any advice.
