We are getting our RSVPs back in and have run into a problem. My fiance's friend has RSVPed for both her and her boyfriend, who was not specified as invited on the invitation. We only put her name. The issue with him is he is rude, obnoxious, drinks too much, picks fights and is just generally aggravating and embarrassing to have around. We have had him at our house a few times and he has tried to pick fights with my brother, the best man and even my fiance.
How do we politely tell her she can't bring him? We are having a family-oriented, large wedding and there will be small children (including our one year old son) present. I don't want him coming because we don't know how he will act. He is not known to contain himself in any sort of setting.