How to talk about registry!

Put it on your wedding website or tell them if it comes up in conversation.

Registry info does not go on invites or on Facebook. Nothing about your wedding should be on Facebook.

You don't tell them. If they want to give you a gift, they'll ask. I can't imagine anything more awkward than a Facebook message or post saying "hey everyone we're registered at Pottery Barn so buy us stuff, kay??".

Do not make a facebook post. Do not message them. Either of those things would be extremely pushy and gross and gift grabby. You can put registry information on your website and include a link to your website on your save the date. That's it.

I don't think it is a good idea to put Anything on Facebook, much less registry info. If you haven't already, make a website and include registry info there. If you are not having a website you could have a family member spread the info by word of mouth but only if it comes up.

In the olden days, people would include registry cards in invitations but nowadays that is largely frowned upon. Do you have a wedding website? If not, your family member and bridal party should spread the word. I would advise against making a facebook post or messaging them because it will seem gift-grabby.

Thank you everyone!!!!

Wait for them to ask you for that information, and then provide it only to the person who has asked your for it.

If you have a wedding website, it is also okay to include a section where you provide links to your registries, but that's the only place.

If someone throws a shower in your honor, the host will ask where you are registered so she can list them on the invitations. These are the only invitations where it's okay for registries to be mentioned.

No. List is on your website. Only tell people if they ask!!!

Put it on your wedding website. Done. That's it. Telling people unsolicited is rude, putting it on Facebook implies that everyone who can see said announcement is going to be invited: even more rude.

Registries are actually for showers anyway, which are parties hosted by someone other than the couple intended to SHOWER the couple with gifts for the home. Many people just give cash or checks in a card for the wedding itself, while occasionally people will also use the shower registry for a wedding gift.

The only appropriate places to list your registry information is on your wedding website and on your bridal shower invitations!!