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MJBride
VIP July 2015

How to organize vendor payments.

MJBride, on May 2, 2015 at 8:50 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 12

I have a few vendors that don't require payment until the day of. I was thinking of starting to mark envelopes with their name/company and put the cash in the envelope and assign someone to hand them out to the vendors the day of. Does that sound appropriate? Married brides - how did you pay vendors the day of? ETA-I'm probably making this way harder than it is lol. Just want to know how others have done it. Who did you assign to deliver those payments?

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Latest activity by Monica SC, on May 2, 2015 at 11:00 AM
  • Robin
    VIP September 2015
    Robin ·
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    I'm wondering this too... The officiant, DJ and bar bill need to be paid and tips given. I'm thinking maybe a DOC is needed just for this!

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    I think that's brilliant, if you want to pay people on the day and have all that cash floating around. I personally ask our couples to pay ahead, more because I don't want to have to talk money on the day. I think that most of my couples also want to have a bit more of a paper trail (or plastic trail, lol); it just feels a little more real.

    You could also use one specific online calendar program to send you alerts on days to send checks to them. I don't think anyone is going to whine if you send them money ahead of time.....

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  • MJBride
    VIP July 2015
    MJBride ·
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    Well it's really only two vendors that said payment on day of, 1. Our officiant 2. Our photographer (who is a friendor-yes we have a contract Smiley winking ) like I said, I'm probably making this way harder than it needs to be lol

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  • Teryl
    Expert September 2025
    Teryl ·
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    It's usually the best man's job to deliver the payments so that it's one less thing on your mind. You just need to get the envelopes together and pass them on to the best man and he takes it from there.

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  • NaShara and Milton
    VIP May 2015
    NaShara and Milton ·
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    We did the envelope thing and it worked great!!! We turned the cash into cashier's checks! It was very easy to stay organized and actually see the cash lol

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  • VWCat
    Master October 2015
    VWCat ·
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    That's what we're doing. My mom's best friend is going to hold on to vendor payments for us (and our cell phones).

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  • Di
    VIP July 2015
    Di ·
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    We contacted our vendors to ask if it was possible to pay them a week before the wedding instead of the day of and they said they were perfectly fine with that.

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  • Kelsey
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    Kelsey ·
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    I put checks in envelopes with a thank you note, and had my mom pass them out. All the venders were fine with that. Smiley smile I didn't have any trouble because I found somebody I could trust to handle the money.

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  • MJBride
    VIP July 2015
    MJBride ·
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    Thanks ladies. Very helpful!

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  • KitandKaboodle
    Master November 2016
    KitandKaboodle ·
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    The band we hired requested we make the final payment the day of the ceremony as they do not accept checks. We asked if it would be okay if we mail them a cashier's check the week of and they are okay with that.

    May I suggest, if you're having a rehearsal, invite your photographer (since he's a friend) and pay them both then. This way you have one less thing to think about.

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  • MJBride
    VIP July 2015
    MJBride ·
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    That's actually a great idea @kitandkaboodle, never thought of that!!!! Thanks!

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  • Monica SC
    Master October 2015
    Monica SC ·
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    I have the envelopes made and filled with cash and locked in our safe. I did that last week!

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