Good Morning!
So, my MOH and I are in the planning stages of my bachelorette. FH and I decided to make it a combo jack and jill/bachelorette weekend. Friday night will be spent at a casino with everyone (bachelor and bachelorette parties), then back to separate hotels. Saturday will be a spa day, wine tasting, and dinner with the girls, then out to a 2nd casino that night (undecided if the 2nd night will be joint party or not). The spa/casinos are about 2 hours away from where most of us live.
Here's the problem... FH's sister, one of my BM, will only be 20 years old and, if carded, will not be able to get into the casinos. She wants take her chances and hope they don't card her at the casino, which (no pun intended) is a gamble. She may get carded, she may not. Either way, I don't want to be worried about that on a night I am supposed to let loose and relax. I also don't want to tell her she can't come with us for the weekend.
How do I handle this?