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Just Said Yes October 2019

How to handle opening online registry gifts at bridal shower?

Kathryn, on August 21, 2019 at 7:52 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 6

Hey Wedding Wire!


If you're like me, you Google every wedding issue you come across immediately to see if some other (read: more clever) bride has already found a solve. Welp, I have a head scratcher here and I can't seem to find any advice on Google.


My shower is this weekend and some of my guests have already purchased gifts from the registry. I know a few people went off registry and are planning to bring gifts. I plan to open gifts at the shower, but obviously the people who purchased off the registry won't have their gift with them as it's sitting at Zola waiting to be shipped -- and I don't want it to appear as if they haven't gotten me anything. Feels a little rude to just ignore their gifts.


Has anyone seen any cute/creative ways to incorporate gifts from an online registry into the gift opening portion of the bridal shower?


Thanks for your help!

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Latest activity by Clíodhna, on September 12, 2019 at 9:10 AM
  • Devoted August 2021
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    I’ve not seen anything, but what if you printed a picture of the item and placed it either inside a gift box, or on a picture frame to display what it is? This way the person feels like part of the experience.
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  • S
    Devoted October 2019
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    I know some people would bring a card that says something like "such and such gift is on its way"
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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
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    I don’t see why you should go out of your way to mention that they bought something online that you haven’t received yet.
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  • Cristy
    Master May 2021
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    Just because something was purchased online doesn't necessarily mean they won't have it for you at the shower. It could have been shipped directly to you, or to the purchaser, and they will bring it to the shower.

    As a guest, I have purchased a gift online for the bride, then put a picture of it in a card saying "it's on the way."

    Since you are the gift receiver, rather than the giver, you don't really need to worry about it.

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    For shower gift, I usually have it shipped to me instead of the couple. So it will show as purchased, but you won't actually have it yet.

    Also, I would not point out that John Doe got you X gift because it may be a wedding gift (not a shower) or it may be a mistake, etc. It would be super awkward to be wrong. Every time i've been to a shower and a gift hasn't shipped yet - the purchaser will enclose a picture in a card for you to open, or give you a card mentioning that a certain gift is on the way. Leave it up to them to say something.

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  • Clíodhna
    WeddingWire Administrator January 2030
    Clíodhna ·
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    Hey there, Kathryn Smiley smile

    How was your bridal shower? Did you find a way to incorporate gifts from an online registry into your bridal shower?

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