I got a text from my FMIL this weekend saying the women at her church want to plan me a bridal shower this summer. Seperately my MOH is planning our couples shower this summer. Only one couple, aside from the pastor and his wife, from their church are even invited to the wedding. None of the church couples were invited to the couples shower. I asked her if these people were aware of the limited space at the wedding and that they would not be extended an invite and she said yes they all know.
Idk it makes me a little uneasy to have people throw me a small shower when I know they aren’t on the guest list. It makes me feel awful especially when the one couple wasn’t even going to be invited the the couples shower. Any advice? Am I just being too cautious on the etiquette side given they aren’t invited to the wedding?
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