How to Deal With This Type Of Mother n Law!?

You don't. She's done dilling with you and you can't be the only one putting in effort. I would distance myself far from this woman and would also have a chat with your FH about limiting contact.

View Quoted Comment “Dilling” right! Lol!!!!

You cannot DILL with people like that. Miserable people will always be that way, there is no changing her or the way she feels. I would keep any contact with her through your FH.

Girl, my mother in law doesn't like me either and it's legit for no reason at all other than I'm not the mother of her grandchild. Yes it bothers me she doesn't like me but I can't dwell on it the rest of my life. I love her son and that's all that should matter but if she doesn't want to give you the time of day then just be the bigger person and let her just continue to build a wall between her and her son.

You dont need that negativity in your life. Plus it really wouldnt surprise me if she plays the victim card if something doesnt go how she imagined, ie your small responce to her name calling rant. Youre doing great by not feeding into it. Sooner or later shes gonna have to work on her conflict resolution skills, and when that day comes, I hope she says "I apologize"

View Quoted Comment Yes that’s all she’s doing! I even tried telling her “ it’s okay you don’t like me” but don’t be that way with your son

View Quoted Comment That’s what it looks like I’m going to have to do!

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View Quoted Comment I was simply apologizing for not inviting her dress shopping lol

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Yeah I get it. It can be very frustrating but leaving communication between her and FH would be beneficial. That way going through you doesn't cause you anymore stress. If she wants to be that way then let her. It's all on her now.

View Quoted Comment Totally dangerous and vindictive and 100% a life ruiner! (Sarcasm)


I hope for you, your FH, and the "glamkids" sake, she achieves her life long dream of calming down.

View Quoted Comment Lol 😂😂😂 thanks girl

Be cordial with her whenever you see her because you're the bigger person but other than that, she's toxic.

I wouldn't deal with that. That would be the end of any type of relationship with her and I. My H would either put his mother in her place or there would be issues. She sounds completely off her rocker and miserable.

Ha! Boy oh boy same thing here.... I keep my distance!!! Hey hello how u doing .... keep it respectful and keep it moving! Keep it short and sweet! The more u keep going back and forth the worse they get 🤷🏻‍♀️

View Quoted Comment Agreed!!!!

Wow your FMIL seems like a total phycho.

This was a passive aggressive attempt to put you in your place. Your response is exactly what I would have said. And also I love how you just responded with an OK to her CAPS LOCK meltdown. She wanted you to feed into her drama and you didn't. My only advice would be keep it that way. Don't give her the response she wants.

I don’t think it’s going to matter what you do or say unfortunately, don’t put up with her treating you badly. He chose you, she’s going to have to “dill” with that 😂

Holy hell lol just because she wasn't invited dress shopping?!?! 🤣 She must lead a very lonely life. Sorry you have to deal with that!