How to ask my bridesmaids?!

There's the big trend of proposal boxes right now. But as for simple, it would be nice to write a card to each of them and maybe get some pretty spring flowers. You can have as many people by you as you want in the bridal party.

View Quoted Comment I love this idea!

This is how I asked. It cost me about $12 per box. 3 custom sugar cookies, 1 baby wine bottle, Hershey kisses, hand cream, and a card with the date and colors. They loved them. Just an idea.
As to 8 people it’s up to you! If those 8 people are important to you go for it! Good luck.

Okay, this is what I have done:
These are the Groomsmen “Harry Potter Hogwarts House Crests”, and the Reaper is for my Son & Anubis is for my Mom:

PROPOSAL BOXES/ETC

Making them.

Bridesmaids/MOH:

-Robe w/name

-Eye mask for travel

-Eye mask gel type

-Neck pillow

- Blankie- super soft to match the eye mask/pillow

- Makeup brushes

-“Harry Potter” pin for their bouquet

- Nail polish

-Candy/Cookies that are their favs

- small bottle of their fav alcohol

-Book by their fav author/ genre

- “HP” mystery mini wand

-“Notebooks & pen

-Shot glass

-“HP” mystery keychain

-Lipgloss/chapstick

and a bunch of other cute/useable things

Groomsmen:

-Flask

-Shot glass

-“HP House Crest” cufflinks for wedding

-“HP” button for Boutonnière

- Cigar box that looks like a lil tuxedo( has cigar cutter and marches/lighter)

- Little Scotch bottle

-Something they each like( comic book for one)

-“HP” Notebook & pen

- “HP” mini mystery wand

-“HP” mystery keychain

-Snack the like

- etc.

Flower Girls( sisters 3.5 & 6yo):

- Book on being a flower girl

- “Harry Potter” Year 1 & 2 ( inscription about wedding)

-Barbie for each

- Little necklaces/bracelets

-“HP” something(s)

-Hand painted wands

-Stuffed animal for each

“HP” colouring books & crayons

Ring Bearer/Security( 3.5yo)

- Book on being a Ring Bearer

-“Harry Potter” year 1 ( inscription about wedding)

-“HP” item

-Toy he wants

-Stuffed animal

- Little tee that says “Ring Security”

- Little rubber fantasy/animals to play with

- Activity/colour book “HP” probably & crayons

My mom & son, my dad/stepmom, FH 21yo daughter and 23yo son, FH mom/stepdad all are getting boxes too. Stuffed with little items for wedding and “just because”.

Groom:

- Tissues to dry his eyes

-flask

-Scotch mini

-Shot glass

-“HP” Cuff links

- “HP” Deathly Hallows Hutton for boutonnière

-Snacks

-Mints

-“HP” mini mystery wand

-”HP” mini keychain

- a few little items... and a note that says something about marrying my “Keeper”....

Then there are

FH stepdad, son, 2 brothers and 2 “coworkers” &

My son, dad, brother and uncle who I will have Cigar Tux Boxes for.

( Chocolate/Gum Cigars for non smokers!)

I made these boxes for my girls, I’m going to be asking them next week.

I made these boxes for my girls. I ordered the champagne flutes from Etsy and the mini bottle labels from Amazon.

I originally had 12 girls but now im down to 8 . i just ask them was nervous but got my answer. I gave them a hefty bridesmaid bags

Hi Darymar How did you ask your bridesmaids in the end?