So I think I’ve put myself in a pickle. We originally had our wedding scheduled for April 11th on the beach. It was a micro-DW out of state and everyone was paying their own fare and stays. We postponed and then canceled the actual reception, etc. but still had hopes of doing a small ceremony with just family.
I found a house near our original location and threw it up to a few family members like “hey if I rent this house would you all want to come for a vacation and we can do the ceremony one day!). They all excitedly agreed so I rented the house and starters planning a small ceremony. I didn’t mention paying for it at the time and haven’t still and now I don’t know how to open the conversation. It’s an 8 bedroom house (3 families attending plus me and FH) and I rented it for a week and it’s about $10k. So it’s quite a big expense I hadn’t anticipated.
We are not a family that does combined family vacations so it’s not like it’s normal to have someone pay for a rental. But I’m just surprised none do the family has brought it up like “ok how much do we need to chip in”. I don’t want it to ruin the vacation but I also am getting kinda annoyed that they’d not mention anything and expect I’d pay for a vacation for their families...
Anyone have any polite way of confronting it to give me?
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