My future mother in law has done everything she can to piss me off. And I can't tell if she is doing it because she hates me or because she doesn't know any better? I wanted my wedding to be a special experience and something I've always dreamed of. This whole wedding experience has been the worst ever. Every detail has her ruining something.
We went wedding dress shopping her my parents and the bridesmaids all wanted to go. Yes that was a lot of people but that's besides the point. I didn't want to drive. The shop was an hour away, it was raining, I hate trying on clothes and I wanted to get a drink durring lunch after. We only needed two cars and I was moving my car out of the way and to my surprise mother in law jumps in and the other two car loads of people said oh, ok if you wanna drive that's fine and they started backing out and I said screw it. I guess I'm driving. On the way mother in law decided to tell me that her mom thought I was pregnant. (I'm a little chunky, and again I don't like trying things on). The appt was ruined by everyone bringing me dresses I couldn't get my leg into and I cried and went to lunch and had no drink...
Asking for any money is a huge issue. So I have said forget it and have been on the road to maxing out my credit card.
She wants to wait until 2 days before the wedding to go to kroger and buy alcohol. Which their family drinks A LOT. My bridal shower was a couple weekends ago. My mom made my favorite fruity drink and it was in a punch bowl. I was dropped off by my future hubby at 1:15 as told by both mother's and the shower started at 1. When I got there I was given half a cup of this drink. Went up to get more and if was gone. By 1:30 no alcohol. Not even the bottle in the fridge. My mother in laws family drank it all.... And she thinks waiting 2 days before the wedding will be ok to grab some cases from kroger. She also mentioned how people are going to bring their own beer.
Most recently she got me a late shower and birthday gift. Lingerie. Ok, whatever, that's fine. Except I'm almost positive it came from her closet or goodwill. No tags on it, smells like most goodwill and is very out dated. Yes it's the thought that counts but don't we all know not to buy used underwear?
I could name other things that have gone on.
Really I just need some advice how to put a stop to this. I think she hates me because she would never do this stuff to her own daughter. And I don't want to deal with this my whole life.
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