How Soon ??

6-8 months before your wedding

Caytlyn nailed it - we have a guide on When to Send Save the Dates that agrees around 8 months before your wedding is safe. Slightly earlier is ok if it is a destination wedding, or slightly later if it is local for most of your guests. The guide also includes tips on what to include, and what not to include, on the save the dates. I hope it helps!

View Quoted Comment Everyone is local .. .. Just a small intimate ceremony and nice reception after ☺️ Providing this pandemic doesn’t ruin the plan

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Perfect, then it's great that you can wait until early next year before you mail anything out, you'll definitely have a lot more information by then to know how to proceed! In the meantime keep planning and stay positive!

View Quoted Comment I’m really trying my best to do so .. Thank you so much .. I look forward to the start of planning...

We waited a little beyond the norm and just sent our last week for our October wedding. Had we followed etiquette, we should've sent them around Christmas (it's a destination wedding). However waiting on our part seems to have paid off as it add something to look forward to in light of all that is happening right now.

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Yes that is very true .. I don’t wanna be selfish especially with all that is doing on I just been waiting cause everyone is local in the same town .. And most of them have RSVP without the save the date and invitation . I am the baby in the family so they are like this a must attend