I have already sent out STD's because we had a date and venue change so I needed to let everyone know ASAP. I included a coworker on the STD list and I really regret it now. The other day at work one of my coworkers made a very racist comment that has since made me very uncomfortable around her. Later on the same day she made a comment about gay people as well that solidified my feelings towards her. I have gay family members as well as people of different backgrounds attending our wedding, and now I am concerned that if she comes, she will make some rude comments at the wedding. I would never think to take someone's invite away, but I refuse to tolerate behavior like that.
Should I revoke her invitation and potentially have issues with her at work? (we work in the same group) or should I just keep her on the invite list and pray she doesn't attend? I doubt that she would attend because she would have to drive out there and pay to stay at the hotel.
