FH and I (mainly me) decided to have a big wedding because we have lots of family and friends. Our initial budget was max 40K. We found a gorgeous location that cost almost 28K which caused us to increase our budget. We cut the guest list significantly to 250. With catering, decor, stationary, video/photo n everything else we are into the 60K. We are paying for the wedding ourselves but my mom was generous enough to give us 15K which we greatly appreciate. Im beginning to feel very guilty about spending all that money just for one day. Mind u this budget excludes my dress,our rings, accessories FH tux, shoes n all the personal items. Im even at the point I told my MOH not to throw me a bachelorette/bridal shower cuz I don't want anymore money spent. Ive only paid about 20K towards the wedding and somedays I feel like calling vendors to cancel but I don't wanna loose the money. How much is too much to spend on a wedding? Did anyone feel guilty about the amount they spent?