How many Rsvps did you have to chase?

I would be losing my mind if I were you! That’s so stressful and annoying !!! As if you don’t have enough to be thinking about right now !!!

My RSVP deadline was this past Saturday and we are missing 21 responses which is 38 people out of 201. I was fully expecting it to be way worse because some of my family are notorious for not responding on time so I'm okay with the amount of people I need to contact lol

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That is a lot of chasing, too. Did you end up with anyone that then didn't show up?

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Miraculously, between my FH and myself, we got it done in 2 days. I feel much better now that we have a real number and can plan better. What day in November did you pick for your wedding next year?

We had to chase down about 15.

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Giving the number of people you invited, its not too bad. We actually managed to get all follow up answers within 2 days.

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We heard back from every single person, but still ended up with 1 no show but that's it.

I had to chase 50 out of 160 invitations once my RSVP deadline passed. One week after my deadline I still had to chase 30. Chasing is a part of the process unfortunately.

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That's not too bad. Have you spoken to the no show since then? Lol.

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That's a big number!

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No, they never reached out and we don't plan to haha!

View Quoted Comment 11.08.2020 - it’s also my birthday lol 😁😁

View Quoted Comment Well it doesn't seem to phase you. For me I guess it would depend who did it.
I have one friend who said she is coming, but I can see her flaking out on us....I guess we will see.

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That's so sweet. My mom got married on her birthday.

Well, you are exactly where I was a year ago.....and man that time just zipped right on by. Soak it up!

Our deadline was last Tuesday 09/03. We've been reaching out and are currently waiting for 11 more responses. They have until the end of the week and that's it!

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I hear you! Its so frustrating when you are waiting on a response....I mean how hard is it. Do you have any other plan that day? Yes, or no. LOL.

I do not plan on chasing people to attend our wedding. I will give 1 courtesy call and that is it.

Out of 80 we had to text for 25!! and our wedding is in 11 days and i'm STILL waiting on ONE!

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I like how consequential you are. FH wanted to be like that, too, but I got all freaked about what if they all show up anyway....lol. So he reluctantly helped me get answers. We got it all done. Some we approached a similar way. Sent a message, no response means "no".

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Its just rude. And annoying. And inconsiderate.