How many people do this?

We are doing a small ceremony, (parents, grandparents, and siblings) and then a huge reception, almost 200 additional people. The only exception we are making is for out of state guests are welcome to the ceremony. I am in Ohio and I have family coming in from Alabama, Florida, and North Carolina.

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Can't speak for OP but it's not about cost. Some people don't want to share that moment with everyone but would like to just share it with immediate family. I personally would rather just have a small ceremony and larger reception for this purpose, but FH didn't want to do it that way.

My cousin did this and I thought it was fine

I don't think it's rude, I'd prefer being invited to the reception not ceremony rather than ceremony not reception. Could you elope somewhere different than have a ceremony a week or so after with more people?

View Quoted Comment Thats something ive been bouncing around in my head. I really want a beach wedding. Im from FL i love love love the sand and the water and the sun, so a beach wedding is like my dream, but getting. Everyone together for that would be very difficult.
I thought about eloping just the two of us but ive always dreamed of my dad walking me down the isile ya know?

I dont know much of anything about weddings or wedding edicates, if we eloped with just his parents and mine would that still be a thing my dad could do? And then like a reception party later or something like you said?

I had a friend do this. It was literally them, the officiant, two people acting as witnesses, and their immediate family. Then everyone came to the reception. As PPs stated, I think it only works if it is truly just immediate family, and then everyone for the whole reception. It can work out very nicely.

I would do this, however, the people invited to the ceremony would be immediate family only, once you start inviting more than that it can cause hurt feelings. Throw a reception and invite everyone!

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Yes of course! You could totally have an immediate family ceremony with 10 guests or less or whatever number and have your dad walk you down the aisle. Then have a reception after! That's totally fine!

My FH and I are with ya on this. Day of is only going to be immediate family, grandparents, and a few close friends. Then we're taking off on a cruise to who knows where, and when we get back we're planning on having a reception/open house with all of our family and friends.
Our thoughts have been to send out elopement announcements so people don't feel left out.

My friend did this. They only had their wedding party and parents at the ceremony. I'm guessing it was cool but she didn't want the big crowd until after