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Toni
Expert January 2020

How many is too many bridesmaids?

Toni, on May 17, 2019 at 1:50 PM Posted in Planning 0 10
I haven’t asked my bridesmaids yet but I would like to ask my sister, my best friend, and my other 2 close friends. We are having a small wedding with only 40 people attending-is 4 bridesmaids & 4 groomsman too large of a bridal party for the party size?
thank you!

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Latest activity by Jamie, on May 17, 2019 at 5:00 PM
  • Brianna N
    Super October 2019
    Brianna N ·
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    Well... I started out by saying I had no women I could ask to be bridesmaids... now I have 5 bridesmaids and 2 junior bridesmaids (my FH's twin 13 year old daughters), and he has 6 groomsmen. Our wedding will be about 75-100 people! Honestly, I think four is the perfect number!

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  • Abby
    VIP March 2019
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    I don't think so! I think that's a good number. 😊
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  • Amber
    Devoted April 2022
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    We’re having an international DW with about 25-30 guests. I wanted 3 on each side max and then suddenly my FH has 6 guys! I think we’ve agreed to compromise on 4 each. Your BP can be as big or small as you want it
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  • Jess
    Super September 2019
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    4 is perfect! That's how many my FH and I each have as well as a flower girl and 2 ring bearers.

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  • Cheryl
    Expert November 2020
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    The more people, the more opinions, BUT yesterday I saw that someone is having 7 bridesmaids and 7 groomsmen! The key is to have who you want. I don't think the size of the guest list and the size of the bridal party are that closely related.
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  • Toni
    Expert January 2020
    Toni ·
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    I felt good about 4 I’m just nervous it’ll look like half my guest list standing up there 😅
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  • Bride2020
    Devoted May 2020
    Bride2020 ·
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    Our wedding is 55 people and we have 6 groomsmen 6 bridesmaids! So you’re definitely good 👍
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  • Jennifer
    VIP October 2021
    Jennifer ·
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    Pick the girls who you can’t imagine getting ready without. If that’s only 2 cool, if that number is still the 4, so be it. I am having 4 & a guest list of 150-200ppl.
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  • Kate
    Devoted November 2019
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    We will have 4 on each side, with a wedding of ~150 people. Even with 40 people, 75% of those in attendance won't be in the wedding party, so I think you are good! I read somewhere that 4 on each side is the average number. I've been to weddings with 8-10 bridesmaids, which felt excessive.

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  • Jamie
    Dedicated September 2020
    Jamie ·
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    I read somewhere that “etiquette” is after your maid/matron of honor, it is appropriate to have one person for every 40-50 guests. This is old school tradition but I think now a days, it’s up to the bride/groom.
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