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How many how many bridesmaids do you have in your wedding?

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Antonette, on June 30, 2010 at 1:56 PM

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I'm from a very big family and so is my fiance.I have 8 yes 8 brothers and sisters and my fiance have 7 brothers and sisters.I don't want to hurt anyone feels by picking one person and not the other.I have been saying yes to everyone so now I have 12 yes 12 bridesmaids.I would like to go down to eight but everyone seem so excited to be apart of our wedding day that I do not want to hurt their feels. I'm having 12 bridesmaids, 2 flower girls,and 3 jr bridesmaids. I feel like a kid in the back room that just want to tell everyone NOOOOOOOO THIS IS MY WEDDING AND I DON'T CARE HOW YOU FEEL BUT YOU,YOU AND YES YOU ARE OUT. AND IF IT PISSES YOU OFF THAT YOU DON'T COME TO THE WEDDING THAN THAT'S ONE LESS MOUTH I HAVE TO FEED. But I can't do that.Wish I could but I can't they are too into this wedding to let them down.

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VIP August 2011
Krista · on June 30, 2010 at 3:05 PM
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I have one matron of honor and two maids of honor. Fs has one best man and two groomsmen.
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Devoted June 2011
Nilda · on June 30, 2010 at 3:22 PM
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Antonette same here i'm having 6 bridesmaids 6 groomsmen 2 flower gilrs 1 ring bearer 1 junior bridesmaid and two junior groomsmen!LOL!
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Mandy · on June 30, 2010 at 3:32 PM
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Mrs J · on June 30, 2010 at 3:34 PM
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Our kids are our wedding party - his daughter is my MOH, my son his BM and our daughter the FG.
Easy peasy!
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Master October 2010
Mrs. Libragurl · on June 30, 2010 at 3:34 PM
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Was 6 now its 4 and I'm good with that
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just married · on June 30, 2010 at 3:39 PM
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I have a MoH and a bridesmaid. FH has a best man and a groomsman. We hopefully will have a flowergirl if my sister's baby arrives when planned.
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Rachel · on June 30, 2010 at 3:40 PM
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We are having 5 on each side and 4 ringbearers. I am also having 2 personal attendants, maybe you could cut down your bridal party by having some as personal attendants instead (and if they are set on getting the dresses, let them get a diff color than your bridesmaids and then they don't have to walk down the aisle) You could also think about doing honorary bridesmaids, meaning that they are recognized in the program and you could give them a flower but they don't have to buy the dress or walk down the aisle.
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ncbride · on June 30, 2010 at 3:41 PM
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8 girls (6 BM 2 MOH) 7 guys
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VIP February 2011
ncbride · on June 30, 2010 at 3:41 PM
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I wish I knew this before I agreed to have so many girls on my team.. I love them..but it's expensive at $75 per bouquet!
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I Yee Yee · on June 30, 2010 at 3:48 PM
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WOW! $75 a bouquet! Are you committed to the flowers you chose? Maybe you can get a quick one-on-one with the florist and see if there are some inexpensive substitutes in the same color that might save you some money? Mine is doing a really good job at keeping mine at about $15 each.
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2d Bride · on June 30, 2010 at 3:50 PM
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We had two attendants, a dude of honor and a maid of honor (both my children). And that was total, not per side.
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*Rell's Bride* · on June 30, 2010 at 4:37 PM
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I have 2 matron of honors ( sister and bestie)
7 BM, 1 JrBM 2 FG's
FH has 2 bestmen (brother and bf)
7 GM, 1 Jr GM (our son) 1RB (our other son)
Total of 23 for wedding party~~~
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Master February 2011
Snif · on June 30, 2010 at 4:39 PM
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5 plus 1 jr bridesmaid. FS has 5 on his side.
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Dedicated October 2010
MrsStanard2B · on June 30, 2010 at 5:40 PM
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We have 3 on each side. I'm having a MOH (Best Friend), a Jr. MOH (my daughter who is also walking me down the aisle), and a BM (Other best friend).
FH is having a BM (He Cousin & Best Friend), a GM (His uncle & father of BM), and a Jr. GM (his nephew). He didn't want his brothers in it. (Long story.)
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Super August 2010
Camlynn2 · on June 30, 2010 at 5:57 PM
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1 MOH 1 Matron of honor and 1 brides maid. 3 groomsmen and my son who is one of the groomsmen will be giving me away as well.
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Super August 2010
T · on June 30, 2010 at 7:12 PM
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I have 10 bridesmaids, 2 jr bridesmaides and 9 groommen, 2 jr groommen, 1 FG, 1 RB.
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Expert June 2011
Antonette · on June 30, 2010 at 7:14 PM
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Wow T.J that is cool.is it stress free having that many people? I'm worry about that.Well I guess my MOH can worry about that.
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Super November 2010
Starsteph84 · on June 30, 2010 at 8:39 PM
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I have 8 bridesmaids. Could have been wayyyyyyyyyyyy more. They definitely do up the costs though!
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Devoted July 2010
Chardeen · on June 30, 2010 at 8:45 PM
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I have 5BM, 5GM, 2 flower girls and 2 ring bearers.
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Expert June 2011
Antonette · on June 30, 2010 at 8:48 PM
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Starsteph84 if it was up to my family I would have everyone in it.
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