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Hopiate
Dedicated May 2018

How many dresses did you try before you found THE ONE?

Hopiate, on June 10, 2017 at 1:13 PM

Posted in Wedding Attire 61

I've been dress shopping this past week, and I've tried on 50+ dresses to no avail. The few I have liked, there's always been just ONE THING wrong. (My brother said one reminded him of a lace tablecloth. That was an immediate no-go. Hah. Sigh.) I'm just starting to wonder if my dress is even out...

I've been dress shopping this past week, and I've tried on 50+ dresses to no avail. The few I have liked, there's always been just ONE THING wrong. (My brother said one reminded him of a lace tablecloth. That was an immediate no-go. Hah. Sigh.) I'm just starting to wonder if my dress is even out there. Did anyone else have a similar experience? Did you eventually find the dress or did you have something made? I feel like I'm running on fumes here. Side note: I know I have plenty of time, but I'm going back to school to finish my degree in the fall, so I'm trying to get as much done before school takes over my life.

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  • reirei
    Super June 2017
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    4, but I tried on about a dozen more and then went back for it.

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  • Tabatha
    Super August 2017
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    I tried on maybe 8

    And purchased the first one I picked out!

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  • Callie Sue
    Expert December 2017
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    I went to 3 different stores, tried on probably 20+ dresses, and ended up choosing the last one I tried without having to think about it at all (right after I got done telling my stylist that I didn't think I'd pick one that day). Smiley laugh I'd seen a photo of my dress a couple of years ago and had been picturing myself in it since then and it ended up working out perfectly when I finally tried it on. I tell you that because I found something large or small wrong with every dress I tried on before it, but still wanted to try some different ones first. Is it possible you're in a similar situation? Everyone's experience is different, though, and I don't think everyone necessarily has the "this is the one" moment.

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  • Dina
    Expert November 2017
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    I think I tried on about 30-35 dresses. I found the one after the 12th dress or so, but had to try on more at other stores just to be sure. I also changed my dress order 3 times. Dress regret is a real thing! I'm finally happy with my dress now, thank goodness. It'll happen for you eventually!

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  • Talullah
    VIP May 2018
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    2 shops about 10 at the first and 5 at the second. I knew my dress was the 3rd one I tried. Try on as many as needed & don't get discouraged. You'll find it.

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  • Ellenwood2018
    Expert May 2018
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    Five before the one but then tried on 5 more after to make sure

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  • Christina
    VIP September 2017
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    I tried on about 30. I just kept narrowing down what I liked and didn't like until I found the one that had everything I was looking for. I went shopping by myself and i am so happy I chose to do so. I cried when I found my dress and the thought of anyone taking that moment from me because they didn't like it would have killed me. You'll find the one. It's out there somewhere.

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  • FutureMrsTrevino
    Expert September 2017
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    I got a dress that was nearly perfect after trying on 10 dresses. I am having it altered to make it exactly what I want (neckline).

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  • Robyn
    Super June 2017
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    39

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  • Private_User832
    Master August 2017
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    I went to 7 shops and my dress was at the last store. I probably tried on easily 90 dresses. Im so glad I didn't settle! I have no dress regret and love love love my dress

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  • P.F.
    Super May 2018
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    The very first dress I tried on was the one. I tried on a lot more just to make sure but it was definitely the one

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  • Melissa
    Master March 2018
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    My dress was the first one I put on! But it wasn't the last. Actually decided on a different dress then changed my mind 2 months later

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  • LanaKane
    Super November 2017
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    21?

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  • Shana
    Expert July 2017
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    I had looked online and found a dress I loved. I was riding through town one day and saw it in a wedding shop's window. I went in, tried it on and it fit perfectly. It was also a great price. I got it! So I tried on one dress.

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  • kelly
    Super June 2017
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    I tried on one and was done Smiley smile I loved it and didn't want to try on any others

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  • Deb C
    Super July 2017
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    12 give or take

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  • Amanda
    Master January 2017
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    I tried on probably around 10-12 gowns.

    I think one thing you could do is if there is something you wish the dress had or didn't have, talk to a seamstress about it. I couldn't find a gown I wanted with sleeves so I decided I would add sleeves during alterations. This made shopping much easier because if a dress was missing a certain something but I otherwise loved it, I added to the list of what I would add/change during alterations. I had my seamstress add sleeves, some lace, and buttons down the back of my gown because that was the only way to get the dress I was picturing in my head. If you love a gown but there's just one thing you don't like, you can always add to it and/or alter it to suit your vision!

    Also, I made sure to try on all sorts of silhouettes, necklines, and fabrics as well as strapless, sleeveless, and sleeved gowns. I always envisioned myself in an A-line gown but ended up with a sheath. I never would have known I loved that look until I tried one on!

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  • S
    Just Said Yes February 2018
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    I tried four dresses on before I found the one.

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  • Alyssa
    Expert September 2017
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    I found the dress I wanted online and went to try it on and new it was the one and didn't bother to try on any others. No dress regret!

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  • Katelynn
    Devoted October 2017
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    Went to one store and tried on 4 and found the one Smiley smile

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