How long until a baby?

1-2 years!

Man idk. i’m pretty happy with my furry babies for now.

We're planning 1-2 years. We'd like to travel a little bit before having babies. But that number keeps changing lol We originally said 3-4 years, but we're eager to start having kids!

We're old in reproductive terms. We're not going to be active about it but after the wedding (no calendar, ovulation test, or anything fancy)... We don't care.

We would like to be moved in to our own home before we start trying. Considering that most of our savings is going to the wedding, who knows realistically how long it will be until we can afford to buy a house. In a perfect world, a year to a 18 months I would like to start trying!!

View Quoted Comment Me too 🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️

With my first marriage we waited until we had been married for about a year and a half before having our first baby. Wanted some time to enjoy each other and tie up loose ends.

With my second marriage we adopted a "baby" (kitten) about 2 months later lol Have no plans on having mutual children until much further down the road. We wanted to get a bigger house (we did this month!) and get things completely stable.

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Same! We waited 2 months before getting a puppy if that counts. Haha. But only pets for us.

We said a year

About 1.5. We want to be able to save as much as possible and then get a house. We plan on trying as soon as we close on a house lol!

I told my mom and mother in law that I wanted to wait two years after the wedding but I’m leaning towards 2-5 years! So, we’ll see!

We are thinking the same 8 months after the wedding to a year. I am 32 and though I kind of wish we could wait longer I want to have kids before 35.

I think we'll probably start trying at least a year after the wedding. We'll both be in our early 30's then.

View Quoted Comment Same here!

I'm still pretty young and getting started in my career so it will be awhile (unless God has other plans). Ideally 5 years after we get married.

View Quoted Comment I feel the same way!

I chose to have a baby before marriage. I've been with my fiance for 6 years. I've been with my fiance through everything. College, basic training, going on his second deployment next month, deaths, financial burdens, all the ups and downs. I wanted a baby before i was 25. And I chose to have one. We had a strong foundation Before marriage. But even with the strong foundation working on the two of you etc . Having a child has challenges no one understands. It's a preference for each individual. To me marriage is a bond between 2 people. To sign a paper. But your bonds and foundation in my eyes should start before. My daughter will be the flower at my wedding and theres nothing wrong with that. ❤

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Thank you!!!! Ideally I would love to wait 1 or 2 years.

We're planning on waiting 6-8 years. I'm currently 21 and FH is 23. We currently have a 2 year old together and are both pursuing our undergraduate degrees. We have already bought our home and have purchased vehicles that we are paying off. Having children is a happy, lifechanging event but I want to be more educated before having another one.

We’re going to wait at least 5 years! Things might change though because we are thinking about fostering or adopting, so it might be sooner or later!