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Veronica
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How long until a baby?

Veronica, on December 20, 2019 at 11:28 PM Posted in Married Life 7 143
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Im thinking on waiting 6-8 months to have my first child after marriage.

When would you guys want to have a baby after getting married?

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Latest activity by Rachael, on January 28, 2020 at 5:41 PM
  • Carnysha
    Dedicated July 2020
    Carnysha ·
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    Planning on getting pregnant during honeymoon after the wedding.😂🤷🏾‍♀️
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  • Kelsey
    VIP September 2020
    Kelsey ·
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    We want to start trying right after the wedding. So as soon as possible after the wedding lol.
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  • Sophie
    Devoted June 2021
    Sophie ·
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    We’re going to wait at least 4-5 years. Still have a lot of traveling to do and want to get that out of our system first Smiley smile
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  • Mandi
    Master October 2020
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    Never. And I'm pumped.
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  • Watts
    Super March 2020
    Watts ·
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    We want to try on the honeymoon right after the wedding. We've been dating for 4 and a half years and living together for 4, so we feel ready.
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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
    Legend March 2017
    Pirate & 60s Bride ·
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    😆 Same here!
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  • Dierdra
    Super November 2020
    Dierdra ·
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    Dated 5 years, plan to wait 2-3 years after the I Dos to do a few out of country trips before children.

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  • Sexypoodle
    Master October 2021
    Sexypoodle ·
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    Very smart! It’s best take time to truly enjoy one another as a married duo and grow stronger in your foundation together before adding in something as major as children.
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  • A
    Super February 2020
    Andrea ·
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    We’ve been together for over 6 years, and had already planned on having kids. The plan is to try after summer next year, so that would be 6 months after marrying him Smiley smile
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  • Rebecca
    Rockstar August 2019
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    We've been married since August.

    Honeymoon is in January.

    There are prenatal gummies on my counter and the doctor said to start taking them a month before we start trying.

    If you get my drift.

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  • Sophie
    Devoted June 2021
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    Thank you! We feel the same way, and I feel like building that stronger foundation will make us better parents when we do have children!
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  • Future Mrs. K
    Super April 2021
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    Honestly we plan to wait 5-6 years after our wedding to try having kids. We will both be 24 by the time we get married and will have been together for 6.5 years but we want time to relax and grow in our careers
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  • Fleur
    October 2020
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    Ever since I’ve been engaged I have had baby fever!! This came out of literally nowhere, since I’ve always loved my life and my independence lol. Still plan to build my career and travel and buy a house first though, but the thought for whatever reason is already there lol
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  • Kelsey
    Devoted October 2020
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    My FMIL thinks I’ll be 3 months pregnant on our wedding day 😂 but we’re planning on trying right away after the wedding. My fiancé has a 9 year old from his first marriage that we have full custody of so not like we ever would or ever will be childless so why wait. I’ll be 29 when we get married the clocks ticking lol
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  • Natalie
    Devoted December 2021
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    I would like to be married for 1 year before trying. But if it happens before that, we will of course be ecstatic!
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  • Madelyn
    Dedicated June 2020
    Madelyn ·
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    We plan to wait at least six years.
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  • Victoria
    Dedicated November 2019
    Victoria ·
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    Ideally we would like 2-3 years but are open to the blessing coming earlier. Our goal is to be debt free by our one year anniversary, buy a house by our second and then have a baby. Of course my MIL thinks we should stop planning and have a kid by 1 year (married almost 2 months).
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  • Stephanie
    Savvy September 2020
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    We are planning on waiting 2-3 years! My future hubby will be 27 when we get married and wants to go to Italy for his 30th and I told him I refuse to be pregnant and not be able to fully enjoy the trip! 😂 and we want to make the trip without a child so it’s looking to be more on the 3 year side
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  • Chandra
    Master May 2019
    Chandra ·
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    I guess 2 weeks? Haha
    We got married 32w ago and I'm 30w pregnant!
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  • Devoted June 2020
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    We talked about waiting about a year or so before a baby.
    My sister/husband waited 4 years and now has two precious children that are my FG and RB. My brother/wife waited 3 years and their first baby will be born 3 months before my wedding!
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