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Sara
Savvy May 2022

How do you tell someone to not talk about being invited to your wedding?

Sara, on February 7, 2022 at 11:10 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 3
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I would like to invite my boss to my wedding but I work in a small lab (3 people total) and I don't want her to tell my coworker about the invite. I'm never a fan of making other people feel bad but I don't get along great with my coworker and don't want to invite her (also we're trying to keep it small and inviting her would be inviting 4 people). How do I politely ask my boss to not talk about the invite?

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Latest activity by KYLIE, on February 8, 2022 at 11:44 AM
  • Sloane
    Super May 2022
    Sloane ·
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    Honestly don’t put that in your boss. Just tell your coworker politely I’m sorry I’m limited with invites and trying to cut cost I hope you understand. Your Boss will end up telling someone and that will make you look even worse when she founds out she wasn’t invited. I would just be straight up about it.
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  • Jasmine S.
    VIP May 2022
    Jasmine S. ·
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    Are you close with your boss outside of work? Or do you really dislike the other co-worker? I'm trying to figure out why, in such a small department, you wouldn't just invite both of them or neither.
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  • KYLIE
    Super May 2019
    KYLIE ·
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    I just wouldn't say anything. It is super normal and traditional to only invite your boss and no other coworkers.

    But only invite your boss if you really want them there.

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