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Just Said Yes September 2018

How do i kick a bridesmaid out?

Lc, on February 15, 2018 at 5:17 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 23

I am getting married September 29, 1018. I’m stuggling SUPER hard. I have already asked my bridesmaids but one of my bridesmaid was a total fringe, I shouldn’t have asked her but I work with her and I felt obligated since I see her everyday. She brings her drama to work, would be crying at work...
I am getting married September 29, 1018. I’m stuggling SUPER hard. I have already asked my bridesmaids but one of my bridesmaid was a total fringe, I shouldn’t have asked her but I work with her and I felt obligated since I see her everyday. She brings her drama to work, would be crying at work constantly about how her “boyfriend treats her awful” and would then come into work the next day saying he’s the best guy ever and she wants to marry him. Long story short, he finally kicked her out, she now has an older boyfriend, as in almost 40 and she’s 23.. she constantly calls into work and screws me over when I’m doing her job and my job. She’s always late, always trying to tell me what to do in regards for my wedding. I’m just very annoyed and I know she will try to steal the show at my own wedding.. I’m not close with her anymore (if I ever was) and I’ve become close with another one of my friends that I didn’t ask to be in the wedding initially. My fiancé wants my other friend (that wasn’t originally in it) to be in it over my coworker and I feel the same. Does anyone have any advice?

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  • M
    Just Said Yes July 2018
    Melissa ·
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    I just went through the exact kind of situation today...my bridesmaid and I were so extremely close and then bam! She treated me like I was diseased and wouldn't make conversation with me or tell me anything in her life like she did with others at work. She wouldn't even respond to my texts. She made me feel like complete horrible and I expressed what was happening and how I felt but it obviously got no where..well today I made the decision to not have her in the wedding..I worded it perfectly so there wouldn't be any issues at work and can get the dress back for someone else to take her place. Do NOT feel bad by any means! It is your day and you deserve to be happy!
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  • Mrs. J
    Expert October 2018
    Mrs. J ·
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    Also, agree.


    Tread lightly, though!

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