Ugh where do I start. I have a select few bridesmaids. I made a FB message group to go ahead and introduce and share ideas. Today I go dress shopping and 3 out of the 4 were supposed to go and now I am down to 1. The issue is one of the girls that was supposed to come I formed the day around her so she could go. I had advised this in the group. Then one of my bridesmaids said this:
Good evening everyone,
So I'm kind of confused as to why I'm the only one showing up tomorrow (even though I'd be much happier 😜...anxiety sucks).
Gwen already went dress shopping by herself, for the first time, a few weeks ago. She deserves to have all of us supporting her and physically being there for her during this exciting chapter in her life.
To my understanding tomorrow is her only scheduled day off (which she could be doing other relaxing things) as well as she picked a date that someone else had suggested, to ensure that she'd have a few ladies with her.
She's already been hurt and disappointed by some family not giving her the support and encouragement she so desparetly deserves.
I understand life happens, and we're still a year out, but I urge all of you to come tomorrow, if at all possible! 🙃
The reply was the girl has a 10 month old and cant just drop everything even though I legitimately fit the day around her because this was the only day she could go. She then turns around to say sorry not sorry I just dont feel like it. Then ended up bashing me on a facebook post. I'm not sure what to say or do because i am beyond frustrated because this is the 2nd time she has left me hanging on dress shopping when it was HER that said she could get off. My fiance says don't feed into it you want to try to salvage the friendship, but is it really a friendship if they end up bashing you? What do I do
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