Skip to main content

Post content has been hidden

To unblock this content, please click here

Kaylee
Devoted June 2026

How do i drop the hint?

Kaylee, on June 10, 2021 at 5:50 PM Posted in Wedding Reception 0 16

How do I drop the hint to my SO that this is the level of performance I’m hoping for? Is it asking too much?

16 Comments

Latest activity by Jacks, on July 2, 2021 at 3:05 AM
  • Michelle
    Rockstar December 2022
    Michelle ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    While that might be too much for other brides and guests watching, it’s your wedding. Be upfront if that is what you want. Men don’t decipher subtle easily if at all.
    • Reply
  • Kaylee
    Devoted June 2026
    Kaylee ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    View Quoted Comment
    Thanks for the advice!
    • Reply
  • Gabby
    Devoted October 2021
    Gabby ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    Is he an extrovert? I know I would be terrified to do this but if this is his personality go for it
    • Reply
  • Lisa
    Super October 2021
    Lisa ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    If you are serious that this is your expectation, I would suggestion showing him. And if he’s comfortable - I 100% would not be - then he’ll have to see if his party is comfortable doing. If anyone is uncomfortable, I wouldn’t push it.
    • Reply
  • Kaylee
    Devoted June 2026
    Kaylee ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    View Quoted Comment
    He’s a weird mix it depends on the crowd. Him and his friends used to do huge choreographed performances in high school. I’m hoping they’ll make one more attempt to continue the tradition.
    • Reply
  • Kaylee
    Devoted June 2026
    Kaylee ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    View Quoted Comment
    I don’t plan on pushing it too hard. His friend group used to do huge choreographed performances in high school so they should be used to it but we’ll see.
    • Reply
  • V
    Rockstar July 2019
    Veronica ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    I personally think this is something more for the groom to decide he wants to do since he is the one that would have to plan it with his groomsmen so I wouldn't ask him to do this. Also if this is something you would push for him to do I would be afraid that it might not come across as genuine because he was forced into doing it.

    • Reply
  • Nicole
    Devoted August 2022
    Nicole ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    I would not hint or be subtle. Something like this will take a LOT of coordination, planning and practice. I would show him this video and say it looks so fun and would he be interested in doing something similar
    • Reply
  • W
    VIP September 2020
    Willow ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    I don't believe in hinting around in a relationship.
    Just show it to him as an idea.
    If he does do something big and choreographed, I'd make it sweet and short. As adorable as those guys are, it went on for a while!
    • Reply
  • Kaylee
    Devoted June 2026
    Kaylee ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    View Quoted Comment
    Thank you for your input!
    • Reply
  • Kaylee
    Devoted June 2026
    Kaylee ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    View Quoted Comment
    Thank you for the advice!
    • Reply
  • Kaylee
    Devoted June 2026
    Kaylee ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    View Quoted Comment
    Thank you for your feedback!
    • Reply
  • T
    Super April 2021
    Tiger Bride ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    I have never been to a wedding where they did this sort of thing so if you're expecting it I would be very up front.
    • Reply
  • Kaylee
    Devoted June 2026
    Kaylee ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    View Quoted Comment
    Thanks for the advice!
    • Reply
  • Samantha
    Dedicated July 2021
    Samantha ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    View Quoted Comment
    I 100% agree with this lol
    • Reply
  • Jacks
    Rockstar November 2054
    Jacks ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    That's a lot of work for the dancers. A choreographed routine takes hours and hours of practice and rehearsal. Feels like a lot to ask. If they are experienced dancers, maybe?

    • Reply

You voted for . Add a comment 👇

×
WeddingWire celebrates love ...and so does everyone on our site! Learn more

Groups

WeddingWire article topics