HELP!
So my MOH dropped a bomb on me last month. She tells me via text that she is about four months pregnant and her due date is about two weeks after my wedding. At the time I didn't fully understand the ramifications of this. However, now I'm wondering how I'm going to tell her that it would be in her best interest to just be a guest if she actually makes it to the wedding day without giving birth. My mom tells me not to say anything yet and let my MOH come to that realization on her own. My mom also tells me that if I say something now my MOH will have a complete meltdown and fallout with me. WHAT DO I DO? My wedding is in July! Should I wait until May or June to say something to her? She's not doing a good job as MOH and I really think its because of the pregnancy. Now she wants to keep the bachelorette party local and now I think it's because she knew she was pregnant and couldn't travel. OMG this is crazy...