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Chrysta
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How did you know it was “the one”??

Chrysta, on August 16, 2019 at 7:16 AM Posted in Community Conversations 1 24
For those of you ladies who have gotten their dresses, how did you know it was “The one”?? I’ve only been to 2 stores to try on dresses, both times unplanned (The first time, my mom convinced me to stop into the bridal store in her hometown real quick and look at dresses, then her and the sales lady roped me into trying on a few. The second time I went with my cousin for her final fitting and there was nobody else in the store so I tried on some dresses). So I haven’t had an actual appointment at a store with a consultant to try on dresses yet. However, when I did try on dresses on those two occasions, I had zero excitement for any dress I put on. Like none. I am completely open to the idea that maybe it was because these were not planned appointments and I was not REALLY looking and planning on buying a dress that day. Also, I recently had surgery and have gained nearly 50 pounds! So my body is definitely not the shape I am used to it being, and nowhere close to how I want it to look during my wedding. So that may also be playing into the lack of excitement when trying on dresses. I am just wondering how you ladies knew the dress you picked out was the one? Did you have an unmistakeable feeling when you tried it on that this was the dress? Was there lots of excitement?

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Latest activity by Philippe's & Racheal, on August 18, 2019 at 10:43 AM
  • Katie
    VIP November 2019
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    I knew my dress was the one when I put it in and I felt beautiful
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  • Tamera
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    I picked a dress to try that my mom and sister thought was "meh, ok". But as soon as I tried it on, and came out they both started tearing up. I loved it. It was so comfortable, it had all the things that I wanted (straps, a-line, etc.) It was also unique and not something that I had seen before. I didn't want to take it off. And every time I think about it, I smile. Can't wait for my alterations appointment! So maybe try on something different that you might not normally have considered. You should love it and want to wear it for more than just your wedding day!

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  • Kristen
    Dedicated November 2019
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    I didn’t have any crazy excitement or cry or anything which I think my family was expecting. I tried on about 10 between two different shops and the next day I woke up thinking about one of them so that’s the one I went with. There was no big moment or anything. Was just like okay I like this one.
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  • Michelle
    Dedicated August 2020
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    I actually fell in love with my dress online. I was looking at the Maggie Sottero website right after I got engaged. This dress just drew me in and I was hooked. When I went to the store to try it on my aunts convinced me to try on other dresses first, so I could enjoy the experience of trying wedding dresses on. Once I tried on my wedding dress I knew that was it, the dress was me.
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  • FutureMrsC
    Expert October 2019
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    It's hard to explain how I knew, I just KNEW. I got a feeling I can't explain. Even though I fell in love in love with my dress, I didn't buy it right away because it was my first appointment. But after that dress, nothing else came close. I eventually tried it on again at a different store and there was absolutely no way I wasn't getting that dress. When the right dress comes along you will KNOW.

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  • H
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    I skipped the traditional route of going to bridal stores to try on dressed because I get overwhelmed incredibly easily when presented with too many options at once. I ended up ordering several dresses on line from Lulus and Etsy. When I finally found the one, I knew it was the one because I truly couldn't envision myself getting married in any other dresses but the one I chose. It felt like me and I felt so beautiful. I didn't have that moment you see on tv like say yes to the dress, it was more of an intuition that I just KNEW.
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  • Desiree
    Dedicated October 2019
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    I knew it was the one because I felt amazingly beautiful. It was everything I had imagined and I was literally glowing from the excitement. My mom originally got emotional with a different dress that was very pretty, but I wasn’t excited about at all. So I would say to trust YOUR feeling and be open to different options.
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  • Ivy ORP
    VIP October 2019
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    I had been looking online for months. I had two picked out as my favorites, both very different in style but I knew I wanted tulle, maybe a bit of lace. At my first appointment I showed them these two dresses and while they didn't have either, they did have one that was the same shape as my favorite, just in a different fabric. I cried and loved it so much. The fabric was beautiful but the dress was more than my budget, and I had my second appointment the next day at another shop. That trip was a bust but I finally got to try on a tulle dress and between the two days I realized my #1 choice was the one I wanted to wear on my wedding day. I ordered it online and waited a couple of weeks for it to come in with alterations I requested. When it arrived I rushed home to try it on and cried again. I knew I had chosen the perfect dress for me. I don't think everyone cries, but the dress should definitely make you feel beautiful.

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  • Sarah
    Dedicated October 2020
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    I did a lot of research online so knew which dress I really liked. I got lucky- I tried that dress on and knew it was the one. I tried on about 20 altogether in all different styles and almost changed my mind. But I put back on the first dress and didn’t want to get out of it or see anything else. Stand up for yourself too and get what you love! Don’t let other’s opinions sway you. I’m in love with my dress and can’t wait to wear it!
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  • Sara
    Super October 2019
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    I think having a good consultant really helps - I definitely don't have a good eye for dresses when they're on the hanger, and someone who's job is to know the dresses in that store can tell you what should look good on you, even if it's something you wouldn't have picked out yourself. I found my dress in a true to form systematic kind of way. I followed the advice of my consultant who had picked out around 12 dresses for me to try on, and tried them on one by one. After the second, I compared the first two, and if I didn't like one as much as the other, it went back on the floor. The favorite between the two stayed in the dressing room. And then I repeated that process until I was down to two dresses I liked, tried them both on again, and ultimately chose the one I liked more. It wasn't a teary eyed "this is the one" kind of moment, but I love my dress and I'm still super happy with my choice.

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  • Kelsy
    Dedicated October 2019
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    I knew my dress was the one went I put it on and I felt like an classic elegant princess
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  • Mrsbdg
    Champion August 2017
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    I didn’t get the Say Yes to The Dress-level of heavy sobs and theatrics.

    I had specific requirements for what I wanted in a dress because I wear dresses almost daily and know what I like. I had the hardest time finding a gown especially since I had only a week from the time I got engaged to find a gown.

    When i I felt how my dress moved I was obsessed. I wanted a skirt with movement so it wasn’t obstructive while dancing. The skirt on my dress was so fun! If only the bridal salon ordered the right size...
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  • Laura
    Master October 2019
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    I almost didn't try it on. I loved the one i'd tried on just before. I only tried it on because my niece/MOH had picked it. As soon as I put it on, it felt like "me" I loved the fit, the cut, the slight shimmer of the fabric. Once I walked out and my niece gasped I knew. I didn't cry, but I didn't think I would. I just felt right. I could see myself in it, and I could picture the look on Rob's face.

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  • Yam
    VIP September 2019
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    I knew it was the one from just the picture. I had an exact image in my head from the beginning. I didn’t try on other dresses, just mine.
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  • Mary
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    I didn't get emotional, but I knew my dress was "the one" when I compared all the dresses I tried on afterwards to it. 💕
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  • MrsV1027
    Master October 2018
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    I knew as soon as I walked out of the room that the first one was a hard no. Loved it on the site. Hated it on my short body.

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    The 2nd one I loved and was pretty sure it was the one. It needed a belt or something for bling since it was just plain ivory with no detail but I loved the pockets and the hi-low look. It would have been the one had my friend not mentioned that it was pretty similar to something I'd add a sweater too and wear to work if it was pink.

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    Then I tried on another one that I wasn't a fan of online and wasn't super excited to try on other than it had a tulle skirt and I always wanted a tulle skirt. I walked out and the look on my friends faces was the best. It fit perfectly and it just felt so good on. I just wanted to twirl around in it. I didn't cry or anything like that but it just felt like me. I didn't want a super WEDDING wedding gown since we were having the ceremony in Vegas and I wanted something fun that I could wear all night out on the strip and this was just perfect for that

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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
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    My parents and FH's mom and grandma were with me at the appointment. All of them loved the dress I ended up getting. My heart was stuck on another dress, but I decided to trust them. Now I'm so grateful I listened because I wasn't sure what I wanted at the appointment. I really love my dress and can't wait to wear it!

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  • MrsV1027
    Master October 2018
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    Same here! I almost didn't try on the one I bought because I loved the previous one so much. I only tried it on because my friends were like at least try on a 3rd just so you can say you did lol

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    I knew I found the one when I didn't want to take it off. The other dresses I couldn't wait to take off and try on the next one but the dress that I bought I wanted to wear out of the store lol

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  • Courtney
    Master December 2019
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    It just felt... right. I did some window shopping by myself so that certainly took some pressure off. The dress I ended up choosing I tried on during one of those days. I made a formal appointment with the moms and my girls and had that added to my wishlist. If I tried it on again and felt the same then it was mean to be. For 2 weeks I could not get that dress out of my head! Even my mom could tell this was The One.

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