I'm stuck on how to arrange my BM once they get up the aisle. I don't have a MOH- I didn't pick one because the girl who would have been my MOH and I didn't speak for a year due to a spat, however we made up early this year and it's like nothing ever happened. But since there was that gap year, I thought it would be best not to have her as my MOH- but she's a BM and I'm very happy. So, any one of them could stand next to me. My first thought was just randomized and I'd pick any order, but I had one BM (not the one that would have been the MOH) make a joke about how if she wasn't the one standing next to me, she wouldn't "help me pee" in my dress. I laughed and said it would be random, but then she said it again, and then once more later on- all as a "joke." While I don't think I'll need help going to the bathroom in my dress (I have a hoop skirt that I've found should actually makes this very easy), I was caught off guard by this, since I thought not having a MOH would make it so the order wouldn't matter at all?? I don't know if my other BMs are thinking this way- I really don't think so.
So now I'm stuck on how to arrange them- my thoughts are either by height or they all draw straws- no hurt feelings. Has anyone else had anything like this?
TL;DR: How can I arrange BM to avoid drama of who stands next to me because there's no MOH?
