I need some advice- one of my bridesmaids has been one of my best friends since high school. However, all of our friendship she has struggled with being there for me as much as I am there for her. She struggles with depression, anxiety etc. and I am always the first one to drive to her house to help, however I don't receive the same in return and have spoken to her about this. I asked her to be my bridesmaid because obviously she's one of my bestfriends, but she also told me she was up for it.
However, she never responds to the BM group chat, she has yet to send in her deposit for her makeup meaning that I can't book MY own hair and makeup since the deposit is for the overall amount ($27/ I gave them all the option to choose whether they want to have their MU done and she chose yes), she is no longer responding to my direct texts anymore if it is about the wedding.
What should I do? Is asking her if she is still up for being a bridesmaid rude? HELP