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Robert
Dedicated October 2021

How are you involving your culture on your big day?

Robert, on June 12, 2019 at 5:38 PM Posted in Planning 0 15

Are there any traditions or decorations from your country/state/faith/ethnicity etc. that you'll be involving on your big day? Any family traditions you'll be carrying on?

Something that's important to your heritage-- or something you've only recently found out about but have to include! Smiley smile

(Sorry if this is a repost-- I tried to post this a few days ago but the site seemed to eat it...!)

My fiancé grew up in Uzbekistan so we'll be incorporating traditional Suzani on our suits, and having a baklava wedding cake! I'm a Christian so we might also have some songs of praise in our otherwise humanist ceremony. I'd love to hear what some of you are doing!

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Latest activity by Elizabeth, on June 12, 2019 at 9:49 PM
  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    We are doing the Polish bread & salt blessing, my maiden name is Polish and I'm Polish on my father's side. We will do an "affirmation of community" during our ceremony which I learned from being Episcopalian. Other than that, nothing really. I'll have coffee during desserts since my father is Italian and always drinks coffee with desert haha. It's cool you are doing so much!

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  • Laura
    Master October 2019
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    We're both proud of being from Michigan and all our state has to offer, so since our wedding is in fall and that's BIG TIME apple orchard season here, we're probably going to have apple cider and cinnamon doughnuts from a local cider mill, and tossing around the idea of mini apple pies and wedding favors. The fall colors here are amazing and we're next to a park so lots of fall photo ops

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  • M
    Legend June 2019
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    Our food is all from my culture. We usually have a thing called tea ceremony but I didn't want that and I also didn't want to change into the traditional attire ahah so my wedding is very largely not cultural besides the food but I think it's cool when people incorporate that
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  • Lauren
    VIP September 2019
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    My fiance is Armenian so we are doing the whole Armenian wedding, think my big fat greek wedding and you are close. It's a whole day affair where the party starts at the groom's house as he gets ready (his groomsmen, his parents, close family and friends), there is food and drinks and dancing in the street as they leave for the brides house. Then they arrive at the brides house with gifts (her veil, her shoes, her bouquet). There is more dancing in the street, when everyone comes in there is more food and drinks. There is the first look with the bride and groom, toasts usually from the fathers and then everyone leaves to the ceremony. It's a huge thing, we are looking at about 30-40 people at my house that morning.

    One of the things I am including in the wedding to also honor the Armenian culture is having little metal pomegranate boxes as the favor. It's a symbol of luck and prosperity for marriage.

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  • Valentina
    Devoted September 2019
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    I think the main one would be a full catholic ceremony. I don’t know how my FH side is gonna handle that cuz it runs a bit long.

    I ’m Albanian so their will be traditional Albanian music and dance added. And of course we will serve lamb as part of the appetizers before the main dish 😂.
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  • Gen
    Champion June 2019
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    We are Jewish so my husband wore a yarmulke and a talit at our ceremony, we also did traditional Jewish processional order, and had 7 blessings read at the ceremony.

    We also did the Hava Nagilah chair lift at our reception which was probably one of the most fun moments of our lives!

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  • Robert
    Dedicated October 2021
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    Loving these responses... I thought this would just be a fun way to share what matters to all of us, but it's also wonderful to learn about different wedding traditions! Keep them coming!

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  • Soon2BSmith
    Expert October 2020
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    Being Black American, I will be the tradition of jumping the broom.

    My FH is Jamaican, so we will have a Jamaican jerk dish option, steel drums for cocktail hour, and we're still deciding on entertainment.

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  • Diana
    VIP December 2019
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    FH is Catholic and I’m Baptist we’re intermixing our backgrounds together for our ceremony. Such as I’m wearing strapless dress, but I’m wearing a cover during the ceremony part.
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  • Mary
    Devoted November 2019
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    We are doing a full Greek Orthodox ceremony! I was baptized when I was five and I am ethnically not Greek at all but its a very big part of who I am. My dad is a priest in the Orthodox faith so he will actually be our officiant. 95% of our guests aren't orthodox however, so it might be a little weird to them but I'm so excited! We are also providing Ouzo at the reception and our wedding favors are little jars of olive oil from Greece (bought from a guy who goes to my church lol)

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  • Lynne
    Super August 2022
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    Well not exactly. We are going with a movie we both enjoy and that's Grease. I say not exactly because the ceremony will be at a fort with buildings that are national landmarks.
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  • Samantha
    Super August 2019
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    Jewish - Rabbi, Ketubah, modified ceremony (processional, tallit, seven blessings, smashing glass under the chuppah), yichud, and the Hora.
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  • Lauren
    VIP February 2020
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    We’re incorporating a lot of things to show our Christian faith! We’re having 1 Corinthians 13 aisle signs, other signs with scripture to decorate the ceremony & reception spaces, Christian songs during the ceremony, prayers, scripture reading, and the Lord’s Supper as our unity candle alternative!
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  • Alyy
    Beginner September 2019
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    We will have cultural food instead of the basic steak/chicken/fish! We are also “switching cultures” and each wearing a piece of clothing at the reception of each other’s cultures. Also incorporating a cultural dance during the reception! Ceremony is strictly American.
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  • Elizabeth
    Beginner December 2019
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    My family is Scottish so we are having a bagpiper at our ceremony. We will also be incorporating plaid.
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