FH and I met with our minister last night for the first look at our wedding ceremony. He is a great guy who had actually baptized my FH as a child and is an old family friend from way back with him and FFIL going to university together. He is a retired minister although he has church privileges in the church he used to preach. I was curious about the honorarium we are to pay him and he just said to pay what we felt we could afford. We are not getting married in a church so do not have any idea what amount to pay him. He will be invited to the reception after the ceremony as well.
What is a good honorarium to give?