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Charly
Beginner April 2021

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Charly, on March 9, 2020 at 7:30 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 20

So my husband and I are renewing our vows but having the church wedding this time. A part of me doesn't want him wearing a tux because the reception is going to be a country theme but I don't think it's right for him to wear jeans at the church to get married. He wants to wear a vest, black jeans, and boots but I'm just not sure about it. Any opinions?

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Latest activity by Charly, on March 10, 2020 at 12:42 PM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    Unless he picked your dress, you don’t get to choose his attire either. He should wear what he wants, it’s his wedding too.
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  • Charly
    Beginner April 2021
    Charly ·
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    He is actually fine wearing a tux but said it's up to me. Thank you for opinion though.

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  • Kristen
    Master November 2020
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    I think it should be his decision. To me a church should be open to anyone regardless of attire. I would say let him wear what he is most comfortable in.

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  • Andrea
    Super May 2020
    Andrea ·
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    How casual is your dress? I’d be worried that you two wouldnt match in formality.
    He could also get changed for the reception. You could both change actually, into something more country chic, that might be really cute
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  • Charly
    Beginner April 2021
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    I haven't gotten my dress yet but I'm thinking mermaid style. That's my worry is not matching each other. I'm thinking the change of clothes may be the way we are going.

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  • Charly
    Beginner April 2021
    Charly ·
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    The church we go to is very open. They don't mind jeans but to me it just doesn't seem right but it could just be me. He's fine with either one as long as at the reception he can be in jeans lol.

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  • Kristen
    Master November 2020
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    I would maybe compromise. I am not a fan of tuxedos (reminds me of prom lol) so why not a nice blazer and matching pants or a three piece suit? Formal and class and we can wear cowboy boots. He can even forego the tie. I feel something like below is classy but makes him happy and keeps with the cowboy theme.

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  • Charly
    Beginner April 2021
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    Lol yeah I'm the same. I'm not like stuck on the tux just think it should be something more formal than jeans. That is actually a really good idea. Thank you. That's kinda what I was thinking in my head but for some reason couldn't come up with lol.

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  • Kristen
    Master November 2020
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    That is why google and Pinterest are a brides best friend. I would be cool if my FH did something like this as it is casual yet cute. He could have the effect of a tux with the bowtie and I think this would be a happy medium for you both. Smiley smile Could even do a darker color if you want a more formal look.

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  • Charly
    Beginner April 2021
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    I love Pinterest. I think I was wording it wrong cause I wasn't finding anything that was something in the middle. Thank you though Smiley smile

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  • Kristen
    Master November 2020
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    Oh sure. I just typed country theme suits in google ( I think)and that popped up.

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  • Nefetera
    VIP March 2015
    Nefetera ·
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    Whatever you both decied you do. However you guys imagine and desire. All about the 2 of you. There's no right way of a wedding/renewal or a wrong way. Have fun planning.
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  • Charly
    Beginner April 2021
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    I agree. Smiley smile Just couldn't get how to make it look formal but country (if that makes any sense at all lol) and he just says whatever I want him to wear he will lol

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  • Nefetera
    VIP March 2015
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    I see yes you both freestyle w.e. ideas you may have. Its sounds like fun. We're renewing our vows aa well lol happy planning and congrats
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  • Nefetera
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    As*** typo
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  • Charly
    Beginner April 2021
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    I think that's the best way to do it too lol. As long as it fits the couples style that's what matters. Happy planning and congrats to you too Smiley smile

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  • Allie
    Dedicated May 2020
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    My FH’s a country boy as well, although for some reason he wanted a black tux at first which totally threw me off 😂 we ended up going to Men’s wearhouse and he really liked the look of a gray suit. He’s gonna wear his cowboy boots with it and put on a cowboy hat for the reception! I think it will look so cute, plus he’s super excited which makes me happy as well. Maybe some sort of mixture like he’s doing would be good for y’all!
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  • Charly
    Beginner April 2021
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    Lol that's funny. Mine wanted a tux for like 2 seconds and then said no he wanted jeans 🤦🏻‍♀️ lol. I'm thinking a gray suit is the way we're gonna end up going. I think yalls idea us gonna be cute.
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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I think what he suggests doesn’t sound bad actually
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  • Charly
    Beginner April 2021
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    I like the whole vest and boots but not the jeans in church.
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