Help with Wedding Party Advice

You don’t have to have even numers

You don’t need even numbers, but I understand limiting your BP when you’ve got 14 people already! You could ask each of them to do some sort of reading at your ceremony or give a toast at your reception?

View Quoted Comment Thanks, I’ll suggest that. I just don’t want anyones feelings to be hurt

They can be ushers

I'd just have uneven parties and include them as bridesmaids.

We struggled with this too, but ultimately decided that it was more important to us to have everyone we wanted by our sides than to have even numbers! FH has several sisters that I knew I wanted to include so here we are with *gasp* 21 in our bridal party 😅 10 guys, 11 girls but it’s all good because we have the best crew!

View Quoted Comment 21!! Whoa! We’ve decided to keep it at 14, 6 BM 6 GM And us. The invite for ushers, host, greeters have been extended. We realized placing everyone up there with us, wouldn’t have anyone to do the other things

Do a reading, give a toast at dinner, greet guests as they enter, hand out sparklers or whatever you’ll use for the sendoff, or have them be ushers. Some people do adult flower girls but by that point there isn’t much of a difference between them and the maids