HELP MY WEDDING IS FALLING APART

DO you have a venue?

I MAKE A DEPOSIT ON THE 17TH

Honey don't get caught up in everyone else. Do what you can with who you can! If you only have 2 or 3 ppl who are willing and actively participating as BM then go with that! Just remember it's about you and FS! Go make your deposit and enjoy your planning, wedding, and most of all marriage.

Being in the military I would say cut you made of honor a break. It is a war zone and you dont know what she is going through. Maybe you can just make her a BM or just let her focus on anything wedding when she comes home. Sometimes it is hard to email or use the phone and the internet connection may not even be that great and if the base is attacked you may not her from her for days. So instead of stressing her you need to be praying that she comes back in one piece. As an army nurse I see what comes back and let me tell you it is not pretty. As for you dad and step mom dont entertain the drama. Someone can only get to you if you allow them to. Hell my MOH isnt helping at all and she lives an hr away but she is a teacher of special education kids and also has to deal with my nephew so she is busy. Life doesnt stop for you bridal party just because they are in your wedding. I have been doing everything alone as well but Its MY wedding and no one else's so Im ok without the help.

I agree with Shauna. I have had some of the same things happen to me with people I expected to be there for me. But guess what? At the end of the day I'm not letting anyone rain on my parade. I will have my day just the way I want it. With or without some folk. Who cares! Life is to short. Live it to the fullest. Keep ya head up and make it happen!

When I do need anything I come on WW. Just organize you time. Make sure you have an organizer or wedding book. Print some timeline templates and start crossing things off the list the more you wallow in your self pity the less things get done. Sorry to be rough but this is just a lil bit of tough love. If you want something done right you go to do it yourself.

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Make your wedding what you want it to be, and remeber no one will be excited as you are not even your FH...

I agree with everyone...cut all the people who are bringing you drama and just make this a happy event for you and your FH. The less people you have involved, the better it will be. It's YOUR DAY! Use what you have and make it special. There is alot of DIY things you can do to cut cost and have fun doing it. I think you will be just fine. I wouldn't play into your stepmom's drama. Give her "the hand" and keep it moving forward girlfriend.

Ditto on all the ladies this you and fh day cut ur losses, keep it movin with step mom the ladies here on ww will help keep u grounded!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! take a step back make a list and hit the sales u can do it girl the less people the better, shoot i cant tell u how many people have dropped out of my day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! u dont need no added stress!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!