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help my bridesmaid is pregnant

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Lynn, on May 4, 2018 at 9:06 AM

Sooooo i just found out an hour ago that one of my bridesmaids is pregnant. She is due 3 months before the wedding. I am overjoyed and happy and excited for her and her new bundle of joy but the selfish side of me is upset because i don’t want take anything away from her and the baby because it’s my wedding. I had planned on asking her to be my bridesmaid in 2 weeks at my girls get together. Should i still consider her as a bridesmaid or not? Please be honest with me guys.

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Dedicated August 2018
LaTasha · on May 4, 2018 at 10:12 AM
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I would absolutely still ask her. Like stated before, if she feels like it will be to much, she can turn down the offer.
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NinjaBride · on May 4, 2018 at 10:22 AM
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If she is your nearest and dearest you definitely should ask her. If it’s too much for her SHE can make the decision to decline and attend as a guest. One of my bridesmaids will be 2 weeks from giving birth at our wedding date and I am just so excited for her (and glad I had them pick their own dresses so she is able to be as comfortable as possible)
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No · on May 4, 2018 at 10:37 AM
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Yes you should still ask her, if she is uncomfortable with it then she can turn it down. I have two pregnant bm's currently (didn't find out till after I asked them), but that's ok. My MOH got engaged 2 months after us and her wedding is a month after ours, and she's still my MOH.
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Heather · on May 4, 2018 at 10:51 AM
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Ask her! That would be great for a new mom! When my kids were babies I loved anything(even though it costs some money) that gave me an identity outside of mommy
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MrsD · on May 4, 2018 at 12:05 PM
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You could just talk to her about it, say you want to ask her but understand babies are expensive and it may be a hectic time. She may be appreciative and just prefer to come as a guest. I was in a wedding last year, one of the bridesmaids was due 1 month before the wedding (she knew when she said she'd be a bridesmaid) then bailed 30 days before the wedding and didn't come at all. It was super rude I thought, she had 8 months to figure it out and should have bailed prior to the bride buying all her gifts and all that.
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