Help me pick a dress 🙈

I am not kidding you, I absolutely cannot decide on which style to go with. I am stuck between a ball gown style and a fit-n-flare. I have tried on 35+ dresses and cannot decide between the two. A ball gown is something I always pictured myself wearing since I was little - it’s the only time in your life where you get to look like Cinderella and when I think of weddings I think of a ball gown dress. On the other hand, I’m very petite and ball gowns seem to swallow me a little bit and are very heavy. A fit-n-flare would hug me perfectly and I would look somewhat sexy while still being covered up. These are two that I am in love with... which one do you guys like??