Help me pick a dress 🙈

I still like the first one best. I like that type of lace better I guess and the bodice is cute.

It has elements of romantic and beauty with a touch of sexy with the slit in between the chest.

Thanks! Yea I think you will look absolutely gorgeous no matter the dress you choose so don't let the ballgown intimidate you. I was also incredibly indecisive (and made my own help me pick post lol). Having on the accessories I wanted to wear helped me pick but totally ok to not have that huge "AHA" moment!

Hi! I love both of your dresses!

I worked in a bridal boutique for about two years and during those years I came to find that most Brides who got the fit and flare wished they had gone for the ballgown. This is only because when it comes to dancing and eating, they felt more free and more comfortable! Also, a few have said that they wished they gone all out because it is the one day when you can dress like Cinderella and ended up coming back to return the fit and flare and buy a ballgown. With that being said, if you feel like the ballgown swallows you, your alterations person will absolutely be able to help with that. A potential option for you could include taking out a crinoline layer or shortening the train. Overall it really comes down to what you feel the most beautiful in. You will look absolutely gorgeous no matter which dress you choose. I was also in the same position as you with styles and ended up going for my dream Cinderella dress and I tear up everytime I think about walking down the aisle to my future husband in it. Hope this helps!