I have an issue -
My very best friend from elementary school until now has just contacted me asking me for advice on a song that she is writing for my wedding....and I didn't know she was writing one. I think it's sweet, though she does not have the best voice and I am not sure how I would incorporate it in. My fiance likes her but he does NOT want her to perform this at our wedding/reception because it's something we won't hear until our wedding day so how will we know whether or not it's appropriate/we like it?
How do I compromise? I was thinking something along the lines of having her perform this song at the bridal shower or the groom's dinner but I don't want to hurt my friends feelings nor make my future husband uncomfortable....