Help - fighting with fiancé

Have you guys considered pre-marital counseling with a licensed therapist? This seems like a miscommunication issue and this is really something best discussed with a trained, experienced, licensed professional.

View Quoted Comment As a social worker, I completely agree and believe in premarital counseling and preparation. Better to address any communication issues or any other issues rather than later down the road. When I was in private practice, I would often see couples come into therapy when things were too far gone and/or when one or both people had one of their feet out the door but came to counseling as a last resort. Take the time to nurture your relationship now. Not sure what your situation is, but marriage can be quite a transition for some couples, especially if they haven't lived together yet. Best of luck navigating through this situation.

View Quoted Comment Thank you so much I will make sure visited a premarital before we get married I was thinking write a letter of how feel and them let him a take a decision! Because we already talk in person and I want to do something different

I agree about premarital counseling. If my ex and I had gone through it... We would have at least had the communication skills to try to get a long.

We have had similar issues. We sat down and talked a few times which has helped. I dont want to start my marraige on a bad note

My fiancé and I were arguing quite a bit when we never had before. He bought the book Love Dare. He has gone through the book (basically its a "dare" every day and usually it has something to do with building your relationship) and our relationship has grown and is so much better now. We are back to how we were before and never fight and communicate way more effectively. I am going to start doing it myself soon.