I had my wedding last year. It was perfect. Stress-free. I was very happy. It was the best day of my life, small happy gathering with family and close friends. I had the moment when I got the dress, my mom cried. We had barbecue and laughed with family and had a lovely honeymoon in Charleston, Golden Isles and Savannah. I had a blast and it was bliss. I felt very pretty the day of my wedding. I got my photos back (my photographer friend did them) and I felt lovely at first but as I showed them to my coworkers or friends who said they wanted to see the dress they all just said "oh". Not one person said anything nice to me except my mother and a few odd Facebook comments. So that planted a seed of doubt. I began to go on Instagram and compare myself to other brides. I wore shorts under my dress and it made my belly pop out a little in some photos from the side and I'm afraid I look pregnant in them ! I didn't feel curvy enough up top. I started picking myself apart, my lips are too thin, maybe I had bad taste, maybe there's something wrong with me, maybe my pictures aren't edited well enough. Now when I look at my pictures I can't stop judging myself and wondering if I'm unattractive. I compare myself to other brides and feel like crying. My mind keeps saying I didn't look good enough and it makes me very sad because it has ruined me feeling happy about myself and my husband's best day. And it makes my husband upset to see me sad about how I looked. Does anyone else struggle with wondering if they were adequate? If their figure is good enough? If other people think they really look dreadful? I don't think retaking them would help since it's ME that I'm not confident about since other people reacted this way. Do you have any tips to help with feeling insecure about how you looked? Has anyone else been through this?