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Just Said Yes September 2015

Help! Bridesmaid dress issue

Kimberly, on June 19, 2015 at 6:26 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 25

I'm getting married Sept 19, 2015. I haven't been stressed out, until now. My bridesmaids had to order their dresses by April (the latest). My MOH stepped up to make sure all of my ladies had their dresses ordered, all said they did. Well, one of those BM lied, and called my MOH yesterday saying she...

I'm getting married Sept 19, 2015. I haven't been stressed out, until now. My bridesmaids had to order their dresses by April (the latest). My MOH stepped up to make sure all of my ladies had their dresses ordered, all said they did. Well, one of those BM lied, and called my MOH yesterday saying she tried ordering the dress now and Davids Bridal said it's no longer available, and there is absolutely nothing they can do (another issue-why didn't David's call me to let me know not all of the dresses were ordered?!?!) I'm sure how to handle this situation. I'm upset, frustrated and angry that my friend lied in the first place, with no reason why! Now I have 6 girls in the dresses picked out and don't know what to do about the 7th. This isn't my first issue with her thru this process but certainly the worst. I feel our friendship has drifted-havent seen or talked in over a month. Do I let her know how hurt I am and tell her I'd prefer her be a guest at the wedding instead??

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  • Sadie
    Dedicated September 2018
    Sadie ·
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    I would tell her to find the same dress somewhere else or something very similar and if she doesn't do it, she can come as a guest. I hope this helps

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  • MrsPlasters
    Super September 2015
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    I think I'd check online to find one used or sample and if not then have that talk with her and let her be a guest. You don't need the stress!

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  • Mrs. Coakley
    Master June 2017
    Mrs. Coakley ·
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    This may seem harsh to some, but i would boot her for lying. Still invite her to the wedding but just as a guest. That crap is not tolerated with me. Sorry she lied-- you don't need that kind of stress!!!

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  • CMH to CML
    Super January 2016
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    IMO, she made the decision to be a guest then.

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  • Possum
    Master December 2015
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    Check online for a used one! There are sites that offer second hand dresses, the plus is that because its David's Bridal it should be a little easier to find too!

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