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CourtneyBrittain
Master August 2019

Head Table vs. Sweetheart

CourtneyBrittain, on June 4, 2019 at 12:34 PM

Posted in Wedding Reception 23

FH and I are working on our table plans for our venue. Is it rude to have a head table for just the bridal party with no plus ones? Neither of us have been to a wedding where the head table includes plus ones. Our Bridal Party itself will have few extra people that they'd want to sit with, save for...
FH and I are working on our table plans for our venue. Is it rude to have a head table for just the bridal party with no plus ones? Neither of us have been to a wedding where the head table includes plus ones.


Our Bridal Party itself will have few extra people that they'd want to sit with, save for maybe two of my BM's plus ones (I don't even know that they will bring one yet) and then my FSIL and her Husband will have their two young ones with them. The young ones LOVE FH's parents though, and his parents aren't big on dancing so would it be okay to have them over with FMIL/FFIL as long as they're okay with it?

I'd mentioned a sweetheart table to FH but he really likes the idea of a head table, and it's one of the few things he has had a huge opinion on so far so I'd hate to take that from him...

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  • Fmv
    Super October 2020
    Fmv ·
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    We are doing a head table. After dinner everyone is free to leave the table and go do what they want. After dinner everyone moves tables and sits where they want anyways.
    Heads tables have been around forever, not sure how theu suddenly became "rude"
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  • Jess
    Super September 2019
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    We are having a head table with just the wedding party no plus ones. As you said this is the one thing my FH was 100% percent on having. The way FH and I went about it was just making sure our party knew that before hand when even deciding if they wanted to have plus ones or not. So just make sure your party as well as their plus ones know that they wont be sitting together so that its not a surpise come the wedding day.

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  • Amber
    Dedicated June 2020
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    I actually never even thought of something different then just the bridal party at the head table
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