I'm torn, so just soliciting opinions before I get much farther.
I have time yet, but FH and I are trying the consider the benefits of both a couple of head tables (at which our entire party will not fit (MOH, 5 bridesmaids, junior bridesmaid, Best Woman, 5 groomsmen, plus us!) and sweetheart tables.
I like the head tables because of the tradition. That's about it. But we won't fit at two 10 foot tables (and that's what we have) set up across the front of the hall. And that's all there's room for.
I like the sweetheart tables because the wedding party will be with their loved ones and have fun that way. Not that any of their spouses or plus ones will be lonely as our families and friends are terrific and there is literally no tension at our wedding. (Yes, I know I'm blessed!).
It sounds like I just talked myself into sweetheart tables, doesn't it? I'd still like opinions.