We have dated for 2 yrs, been engaged for 2 months. i have no doubts that this is what i want, but he has tried to call our engagement on and off 3 times now. after announcing the engagement officially his parents gave him a talk to try to convince him we should wait 5 yrs...wtf, he tried to convince me, then agreed to only wait 1 1/2 yrs...a week later he tried to convince me again, then changed his mind back. his top concern was our financial stability but we have worked that out. being jerked around twice was bad enough, and he promised he wanted nothing more that to marry me as soon as we graduate college....then last night we have a little argument and he texts me later that maybe we should rethink getting married unless we resolve the issue. i break down crying with friends. i call him and say, look we can postpone, we can wait, should i give the ring back until you are actually ready to do this?? now this is the upsetting part...he says, oh i didn't really mean we had to
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