Having another "I just want this wedding to be over" moment

I feel the same way. I think I was way more excited about wedding planning before I got engaged. Maybe cuz by the time I did get engaged a lot of my friends had already gotten married or maybe cuz now that I am seeing how much money it is all costing me I'm just not as excited as I was before. I think the fact that we already live together and it seems like we are already married has something to do with it too. Oh well at least I'm still looking forward to the bachelorette party and the honeymoon...for some reason those don't seem as stress inducing so should be more fun since I can relax, hehe.

I think we all feel this at some point. I really started out strong with doing stuff and being soo excited. I have gotten to the point I do still get excited about certain things ...but mostly I just want it done already!

We've saved up $1000 within the last 3 months, which is for the reception deposit. Knowing we wont have that money anymore is depressing FH and I both lol.

I keep asking him, 'Do you only want a ceremony? I'm fine with that'

His answer 'No no, I want the reception as well' lol

So I agree with you, I go in phases.

I'm mostly ready for it to be over even though we've only been engaged a month because I just want to be married already!!

This whole separate houses/beds/etc thing... I'm over it! OVER IT I SAY! Lol. I want to elope too, except not really.

I'm sorry you're having a down day WAHP, hopefully tomorrow will be better!!

Me too.. I finally broke down crying.. Tomorrow is a new day tho.

My view is that the person who doesn't want to elope should be doing the bulk of the wedding planning. LOL

Ugh. Every time I have one of these moments I'm approached with "you should just elope". If I truly wanted to elope why would I put myself through the stress of planning and funding a wedding?! Our funds are extremely tight and there are just specific things I refuse to cut out. I've DIY'd all I can think of doing, my important to me items will happen, so it'd be nice if people would just listen when I lose it, it's temporary, don't just brush it off with something I don't want to do! Sorry for hijacking :/

Lets get back to this feed because I HATE planning today. That feeling where everything is mostly done but you still have a shit ton do and hate all of it. Thats where im at!

I cant decide on what to do about night before/of wedding. Bridal party was supposed to all stay so EVERYONE was in one place after the rehearsal dinner and now some GM are being douchey.

Cant decide if we want to pay the extra 75 for the limo to the ceremony from the hotel

Figuring out airport transpiration from home to airport and back. We dont want to ask anyone cause its at 4am there and 10pm back.

Then theres Bridal shower, Bach. Party, THANK GODDDD invites are done those were a freaking nightmare, engraving rings, finishing vows, seating chart, AHHH. im loosing it ladies. i'm really loosing it.