Knowing photography was really important, we shelled out a lot of money for what we thought were good photographers. They had great reviews everywhere and we loved the samples of their work. Everyone told me not to send them a shot list unless we had a very specific photo we wanted. The photographers also told us they would take care of arranging the standard bridal party/parents/siblings photos etc. Their specialty is capturing candid moments by being non-intrusive on the wedding day. Unfortunately, they were TOO non-intrusive. I know it's not the photographer's job to tell me what side is my good side or how to smile, but I at least thought they would tell me when someone's eyes are
completely closed in a photo. I was absolutely crushed when we got our photos back. Continued in comments...