In the middle of my planning I run into a bit of a problem. My soon to be brother-in-law has been with this gf for some time. Weve all even lived together at some point as roommates. I HATED her as a roommate. We were friendly at one point but she started some bad habits. Not cleaning up the house or after herself. When i would confront her she would catch an attitude and fly into hysterics. She'd also ruin several of my things and refuse to refund or replace them.
Regardless I tried to make amends with her and move on but she simply refuses to even speak to me or reply to me.
When my fiance and I got engaged I was upfront and honest and simply stated I did not want her part of my wedding party or wedding. We're not even on friendly terms why would I want someone like that with me on my special day? I believe the phrase is called "nearest and Dearest"
Almost out of nowhere she gets pissed off because 1. I didn't choose her to be in my wedding party and 2. I didn't want to invite her to the wedding. So now her boyfriend ( my brother-in-law, whose also a groomsmen ) is now making an ultimatum that if she can't come he's not coming.
My fiance agrees with my feelings but at the same time he's conflicted because that's his baby brother. What do I do? For the sake of Peace do I invite this person that clearly doesn't like me where do I stick to my guns in Risk making a rest between his brother.
Also for the record I adore his baby brother. I've known him longer than they've been together(the gf)
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