There were many gowns I tried on and everyone fell in love with the super fitted mermaid ones that just aren't "me" as they say they make me look less short (i'm 5'4). I envisioned myself in a sparkly princess-style gown form fitting on top and kinda long train traditional back with lots of beading. The dress part of this is exactly what I have been dreaming of, I even told the stylist that EXCEPT for the sleeves.
It's already quite a bit over budget (but so was the family's favorite that I don't like) and I'm afraid alterations would be extensive and cost a fortune. Has anyone ever cut the sleeves and lace off of the neckline of a dress? The stylist said the support was in the zipper, that the sleeves could be cutoff and it could be turned into a sweetheart neckline. Would you recommend finding a similar dress that's sleeveless or do you think alterations would look ok on this? Even if it wasn't strapless, I would still love the dress if it was off the shoulder. It just will get too hot with full sleeves and they also don't look right on me. Has anything seen something like this but sleeveless?