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Heather
Savvy March 2022

Has anyone had a short, venue-planned wedding?

Heather, on January 19, 2021 at 10:57 AM Posted in Planning 0 7

I found a venue that provides everything that you need: day of coordinator, officiant, bridal bouquet and boutonniere, floral centerpieces, tables, chairs, tables, linens, small wedding cake, drinks (beer, wine, champagne, sparkling cider, and soda), buffet dinner, photographer for 4 hours, and a DJ. It's for 30 people and you get 4 hours (45 min for arrivals, 15 ceremony, and 3 hour reception) on any day but Saturday and you can book no more than 60 days out.

We are not planning on having a bridal party, just a flower girl. Not planning on speeches or bouquet/garter toss. Just a first dance and maybe a father/daughter and mother/son dance. Don't really want a big "party", just would like a casual dinner party with music that people can dance to if they choose.

  • There are a few things I am worried about:

  • First, is 3 hours enough for a reception. We would need time for pictures since FH wants to see me for the first time coming down the aisle. It's going to be our family close friends, not party people.


Second, I'm a bit of a perfectionist, so I'm hesitant about not being able to see the flowers and cake before hand. Has anyone done this?


The reason I am so keen on this place is because it is beautiful and I wouldn't be able to afford it without doing this micro-wedding package. Also, I love the idea of not having to worry about the stress of planning, but it does make me nervous not being able to handle the little things I care about. Any feedback is appreciated!

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Latest activity by Heather, on January 19, 2021 at 4:17 PM
  • T
    Devoted July 2021
    Ty ·
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    Hello!


    The venue we choose provides all the design and decor, and the day of event coordination.
    Everything else, we are taking care of, but it does help a lot to not have to do the design aspect. It’s really just smooth sailing for me.
    With that being said, I would ask them to see sample work, and see if they can do a sample table setting for you. What about sample tastings?
    And lastly, can you pay for an additional hour or two? I think at least 4-5 hours should be fine for ceremony and reception.
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  • Heather
    Savvy March 2022
    Heather ·
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    Thanks so much for responding!

    I don't think we can add any time. I think what it is is what it is. Regarding the samples, I don't know that we get those either. We do get to choose between 4 different meal options tho.

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    Devoted July 2021
    Ty ·
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    No problem.


    It will save you a ton of money all inclusive. If you can maybe see their website or Instagram where you can see the quality of work they do that will ease the stress a bit.
    People will love the food and liquor.
    Other than that they will love it.
    I say go for it.
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    Expert September 2020
    Amanda ·
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    I did this and couldn’t be happier. We had 15 people and about 2 months of planning and they included everything. I’m also a control freak - especially with flowers. But looking at their Instagram and other photos, everything was always stunning so I just had faith. Wouldn’t change a single thing.
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  • Michelle
    Rockstar December 2022
    Michelle ·
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    An all inclusive venue where the planning is done for you is perfectly fine. You will be equivalent of a guest by giving up choices. Don't assume that it is cheaper because they will make up for it with high food/beverage minimums and if there is they include that you don't want then you are usually stuck paying for it regardless. Price DIY vs all the costs of all-inclusive and compare. Most DIY venues include tables/chairs.


    Personally I would never book a venue blindly that provides food because you are stuck if you don't like the tasting (never provided until after you book ) and there is no guarantee that the food is better than an outside caterer.
    As far as time, with the current restrictions people are mainly just mingling. That is standard entertainment at cake/appetizer receptions where they don't run longer than 3 hrs, usually 2. Dancing is a minimum of 5 hrs for all but that is on hold for now.
    It's all about what is important to you.
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  • Heather
    Savvy March 2022
    Heather ·
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    Thank you. I've asked if they have some photos of weddings because they also offer other packages that so I don't know how accurate their social media is. But that makes me feel better that someone else had a good experience with it. Smiley smile

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  • Heather
    Savvy March 2022
    Heather ·
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    Thank you for the feedback. I will definitely have to make sure that there are no hidden fees and make sure that I research the catering company they plan to use.

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